Entry ni untuk REVIEW TWB esp those yang postkan dalam blog they all. If I come across it or you post it in ur blog, please do let me know by putting ur link at the comment below and I will update this post.
Alhamdulillah and thank you for all the feedback. Positive or negative. I thanked you for do bother/care. Either its a review or an open comment. Hence untuk membalas kebaikan anda dengan kebaikan yg lain, and since I initiate this ruangan review, I would like to share guidance to give nasihat with you, or adab of giving nasihat so that I dont drag you into doing sin.
- Nasihat is vital in our religion as the Prophet (sas) said:
"Inna min haqqi al-muslimi 'alaa al-muslimi an yansaha lahu idhaa ghaaba.""One of the rights of every Muslim over every other Muslim is that he render him naseeha when he is absent."
- Fudail Ibn Ayyadh, one of the pious scholars from our predecessors, said, “A believer covers up and gives naseehah, whereas an evildoer exposes and humiliates.” / Orang yang beriman akan menutup keaiban saudaranya dan memberikan nasihat, manakala evildoers (org yg melakukan kejahatan) membuka aib saudaranya dan memalukan mereka.
- Jika kamu menegur saudaramu dalam sembunyi, maka kamu telah menjalankan tanggungjawabmu, sebaliknya jika kamu menegurnya di khalayak umum kamu telah membuka aib saudaramu dan memalukannya - Imam Shafie (I did mentioned this in TWB)
Be careful my dear sister if in case your action collides with your intention :) May all of us are among the guided. Amen.
I know there are some typo error here and there in that TWB or grammar or tatabahasa mistake, but since I dont have the novel yet (org rumah tak post lagi) hence I dont know which is which yet.And knowing the fact that LITERATURE is meant to be subjective, hence it cant really be something yg semua orang suka. Ada orang baca cakap, part paling dia suka is to see Adam as a good IMAM to his family. Ada yang baca cakap she sees how different Ariana is when she woke up and stay STRONG even she was raped. Ada yang cakap, REDHA is the key point to face the world. And there are those who said, it is UNSPEAKABLE, banyak yg diperolehi dan ada juga yang mungkin akan kata it is membosankan etc. Which is which, yang pasti saya tidak mampu memberi kebaikan, tapi kebaikan itu mampu kamu cari, dan hakikatnya semuanya dari Dia.
The table is all yours :)
Terima kasih kepada blog-blog di bawah yang review novel TWB. Thanks :)
1. Nakhoda Nurani
2. Perjalanan Hidupku
3. Sha's Goodread's Review
4. Lulu Pages
5. Bila Eizzara Eizaty ke Dunia Novel
6. Aisyah Humaira
7. My Next Playground
8. Gadis Kampung
9. Tauhu Sumbat
11. My Life, Your Life, Our Life
12. It's My Life
13. Azie Namico
14. Iezwa Razk
16. Teratak Novel
From me the writer myself :
- Detik Ariana Rose sedar yang lelaki yg menjadi suami dia adalah Tengku Adam Kamil, bekas perogol, apa yang terdetik dalam hati Ariana ?
I'm sorry I cant satisfy anyone's emotion - to write as in Ariana go against her husband as God's word is in higher level than any other. If he is your husband obedient on lawful thing is wajib even if he used to have sin and he repent.
Abu Huraira(Allah be pleased with him) reported the Messenger of Allah(SAW) said: If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I would order a woman to prostrate herself before her husband. (Tirmidhi)
- The issue of RAPE. I went trough a greater extend about RAPE - there were hospitals and psychologist speaking about the issue. . What is RAPE ? Here (in UK) even lil kids were exposed to know what is RAPE so that they knew what people did to them is wrong. RAPE can happen even if that person is your own husband. Its is an act of being reluctant. BUT are you really being reluctant ? If let say that person is your boyfriend. He might pushed at first, but the later action, only you knew it better. That is what I portrayed in early part of TWB. HOW the hospital figure out either its a rape or its actually not (unless u were drugged) ? You can find this out, and how I portrayed Ariana after what had happen is more than enough to show that, there is a thin line between the two BUT the one who did the action knew it better. I do not need to commit s*x to know this. Read articles about the cases happen. Its a wide open source of knowledge out there and of course i didnt mean porn ! (did u learn anything in pornography ? I dont think so.). So be careful of ur action with ur boyfriend. Jangan tergadah baru nak salahkan one side.
- Adakah perempuan yg dirogol nilainya lebih rendah dari yg lain ? Apa bezanya yg dirogol dengan yg free2 je bagi ? if bad things happen to you, do you need to expose your sin when God cover it for you ?
- Relationship between husband and wife. Boleh ke buat family planning ? Perlu ke keep on track dgn wife's periodic cycle ? A good husband does. Dalam Quran surah Al-Baqarah ayat 222 did mention about menstruation. Its a painful period for a woman. Hence God told the husband not to approach them during this time. Al-Baqarah ayat 223 Allah mentioned about how and when the husband should approach the wife as to bear fruitful result from his action. In another word, sexual relationship bukanlah perkara main-main. It is a serious matter for men kerana hubungan suami isteri bukan sekadar memuaskan nafsu, tapi untuk melahirkan ummat Islam yang patuh dan taat pada Allah. Seperti mana bercucuk tanam, pekebun perlu tahu waktu yang sesuai dan sepatutnya dia menaburkan benih agar mendapat hasil (Allah umpakan/qiaskan isteri dengan ladang, dan lelaki sbg org yg bercucuk tanam/menabur benih) dan waktu yg tidak sepatutnya yg mana akan memudaratkan/merosakkan tanah. Dengan erti kata lain, lelaki patut tahu dan peka wife periodic cycle utk family planning, and bear in mind of what will come out from that action.
- And of course there are parts which I am very straight about, since thats my character, I dont go around the bush to explain things. My bad :) It taught me about deviances in audience and the aspect of being audience wise :)