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Sunday, 9 June 2013

Six Pack. Picnic. Life in England

Salam alaikum !


Alhamdulillah, alhamdulillah and alhamdulillah, berkat doa semua thesis dah berjaya di submit Jumaat 7.6.13 =) Preparing for my VIVA. Owh saya di tahun pertama, bukan final VIVA lagi. Alhamdulillah juga result kajian so far showing a very prominent outcome, which make me feel so much better and its all from Allah. Ingat hari tu susah nak dapatkan data dari local shopping mall- tapi rupanya Allah nak temukan dengan penemuan yang lebih baik, alhamdulillah.

So dalam hidup ni, bila kita percaya setiap benda yang kita dah usaha habis daya tapi tak dapat, itu tandanya benda tu bukanlah yang terbaik untuk kita. pasti ada yang lain yg lebih baik yang Allah sedang aturkan untuk kita. in shaa Allah. tugas kita hanya usaha, doa, percaya dan teruskan mencari. Bila kita bertindak dalam surahan Dia barulah hikmah itu akan kita rasa, in shaa Allah.

And yeah with many of my friends going home for their summer vacation (budak2 undergraduate) yang dah layaknya jadi adik, we went for a British thingy yesterday. What else but sun bathing and picnic, plus dah weeks i quarantined myself, so need a fresh air lah !

Its a new place we discovered. Wowwie ! hehe. A very lovely one. Macam small scale hutan simpan ? Some what lah. With 17C weather...its considered as panas. Yeah. Exactly panas. No need to wear jacket anymore. Packed our nasi lemak, trifle, chips and drink.

To reach the exact picnic location which is down in the small jungle (?) we need to take a walk through the alley. And it was sooo beautiful ! Penuh dengan flowers. What make me even shock is I could see a lot of Queen Anne Lace here ! Look :


Ingat tak apa Fido cakap pada Hana dulu ?



Petikan dari Bab 14 : 13 Jam A380
“Maksud  you …. I  ni  symbol  peace ?” soal  aku  ragu-ragu. 


Dia  angguk.


“Peace  after  all  the  struggles … and  a   shelter  for  those  who  had  been  lost  for  so  long. You  are  like  a  sanctuary  but  being  shielded  by  a poppy’s  personality. Only  someone  with  a good  heart  will  do  what  you  are  doing,  Hana. Queen  Anne’s  Lace  is  a  symbolic  of  sanctuary, I bet  you  know  that.
 



Alhamdulillah, really enjoyed our picnic yesterday. Kadang dekat dengan alam buat kita kembali kepada fitrah yang suka mencari ketenangan. Hati dan jiwa terasa lebih tenang... One thing yang Eve suka dengan orang English is, dorang is not as materialistic as us. They are nature's lover....and...they appreciates their life and time.

We spend so much time to work, and mengejar keduniaan...but as for them, life is life. Pergi kerja habis kerja balik rumah. Went to PUB (public house) for a drink and catching up with friends on Friday night. Weekend is absolutely waktu untuk family. Jalan2 dgn anak isteri (if they have any). 

Right before reaching the waterfall (fake waterfall) jumpa this flowers. Pengsan ! Haha Eve suka bunga. So. You should know how excited I could be. lol


Tu, daun gerigi sebelah kanan tu sangatlahhhh gatal. Euu. Terkena sbb excited tengok bunga and amek pic. Sangatlah gatal tangan sampai malam. ergh. 

Jalan turun alley, samapi water fall sides :)  Feuh, sungguh meriah. Ma shaa Allah. Ya lah, kalau dalam setahun jarang2 dapat matahari, kalau sekali matahari keluar semua akan keluar untuk duduk bawah cahaya matahari tu. Eve sendiri pun suka berjemur. Nikmat org kata.haha


Belah ni sangat clandestine kan ;) Tengok sebelah satu lagi pula.hehe



 Dorang buat family day lah kot ni. I have no idea. but the kids areee cuuteee !!! 


Taking our spot. Silang kaki, terus hadap makanan. Haha. I was facing the sun since my other two friends takut burn but I dont really mind getting burn a bit. Rasa panas matahari bila dalam keadaan agak dingin macam ni...its so heavenly good guys ! ;)

And yeah since I couldnt see people behind me, I just listened to my friends' comments about those peeps. Look at those yang tengah baring right next to my shoulder. 4 British guys yang sangat lucu !

U might not be able to see them clearly (good for you, haha) sbb badan dorang putih so bila kena cahaya matahari and diambil gambar, u wont see anything pun from the picture. Anyway those guys. Dorang berempat - semua lelaki. Yang kelakar is, dorang macam berpakat, awal2 baring meniarap sama-sama sambil tongkat dagu perhatikan orang. Then sama2 baring pandang langit dengan kaki silang satu. I was like : What the hell ? Boyband apa ?



Enjoying life. Is part of the thing which they can do best. and yet I kinda like the idea. I mean no one like to be judged. And no one have the right to judge others ! Nobody care if you wear cheap clothing or you dont own a car here. People dont look at your appearance. We appreciates  beauty differently. and we appreciates human right highly.




Being here, I am very happy too. I used to do my undergraduate di Sheffield. Masa umur 20 sampai 24. Balik kerja dengan parent setahun, then gatal nak kerja as PTD so I quit helping with my family business. Then tertekan sebab as for me, my salary is not enough at that time. I mean, alhamdulillah rezeki Allah bagi sangat cukup, but utk saya, saya fikir saya boleh pergi lebih jauh dan dapat lebih baik dengan apa yang saya ada (You should analyze your potential and weakness every month). So before I reach 30, I decided to do my PhD, and it seems like its the best choice for me. Kenapa ? Sebab Allah izinkan ianya utk berlaku when I was 26. I have no intention in becoming a lecturer as my aim is to have my own consultant company. Doakan :)

And yes, in between 2 years di Malaysia. I can feel the pressure. Kos hidup. Dengan paying for my own house (tinggal sorang in my apartment) , for transportation. Harga rumah di Malaysia is ridiculous. So does harga kereta. Public transport was not any better. What choice do you have ? Once you step out of undergraduate title, u r set to have a lot of hutang. 

Hutang kawin. Hutang rumah. Hutang kereta. 

I was thaught by my ayah to ukur baju di badan sendiri and was advised not to make any loan. So the best thing is - why dont you buy a second hand car which you can pay cash ? Instead of buat loan and thight for 9 years ? Its all your choice. - but I basically borrowed kereta ayah :p

Baring-baring di lantai bumi was so peaceful and was so nice. Kalau di Malaysia ramailah yang akan sibuk tanya soal JODOH saya. Benda yang paling saya malas nak layan. Seriously. When my aunts asked, my mom would be the first person to answer it. She would proudly said :

Dia tak nak lagi. Banyak lagi yang dia nak dalam hidup selain kahwin.

Owh yeah, I love my mom. She understands me so much ! Like a best friend does ?  No. More than that. 

As a novelist mungkin people would think i am a hopeless romantic ? or anything close to that. but seriously, saya menulis sebab saya  takut dengan fenomena novel di Malaysia sebelum ini. Banyak perempuan heroine di bayangkan sebagai tidak berpelajaran. Jadi PA, jadi secretary, jadi amah, macam satu kunci utk kahwin dengan orang kaya. Pada saya, kenapa nak harapkan harta orang kalau kita sendiri boleh jadi kaya ?Being a PA/Secretary/Amah - seriously ? Your choice, again, but why be that when you can aim for better ? and why aim to marry a rich man so that you will become rich ? Be rich yourself ! 

Since this had become some what an  issue/ offensive for some people I will add my explanation here about what do I actually mean. Its a screen shot from the comment below.


( I touched about NOVEL PHENOMENON NOT HUMAN REAL LIFE AND REAL WORK or BE BELITTLING any jobs! And my concern and advise is to the teenagers/youngsters whom not yet have any job/career. It is not aimed for anyone who already have a stable career, family etc.  If you already have a stable job I cant really say ITS YOUR CHOICE, cause you are not facing any choice anymore (is it (?)) - you already MADE the DECISION.  I am fully aware that every of us have our own story. If the story plot (now I'm talking about NOVEL AGAIN, not anyone's REAL LIFE) is showing a woman/heroine with strong heart (no mater what kind of job she's having) its consider good to me, the thing which I'm against is when the heroine were weak. But after all its my personal preference. Many people loves telenovela which is is not my cup of tea, so basically we are open to MANY different opinion and taste. As much as you said I cant push you to love what I love and think the way I think (which I dont even push you to accept whatever I said) thats how much I might not be influenced or tolerate or bothered to change my opinion in storyline or principals). So PEACE yo.

Enough with my mumbo jumbo. but if you're a teenagers reading this, trust me, do well with your life. Dont aim for anything less. Never. Trust God. Allah have the POWER to grant all your wishes !

And to those whose being pressure about marriage. Stand up for yourself and have a principal. You know what you want better than others. Dont get married just to please others. That's sick.




Alhamdulillah, my heart do find peace here. Seriously do. Took a walk in the small forest before going home. 



Cantik kan bunga-bunga yang tumbuh atas tebing ni ? Banyak lagi pictures but ada pic Eve.hehe. Hence. Tayang yang mana tak ada saya di dalamnya :p



Before going home. Looking at all the houses here. I feel like bringing my parent to live with me....Saya menumpang mereka sedari kecil sampai lah ke usia sekarang, pelik kan bila dah besar macam ni susah betul nak jaga mak ayah. Nak bawa dan sara mereka. Ironic life. Doakan impian yang satu tu tercapai ya :)



And finally tengoklah one pack adik ni :p hehe. He greeted us right before we ride the car to go home.



Bye guys and till we meet again dalam Abang Pilot Part 2. Esok lusa kot :)Nak keluar minum tea at Tea Shop. Perasan so English lately.Hehe. Have a nice weekdays ahead and dont forget to appreciates your life. Dont let your work enslave you ! <3

Eve xx

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101 comments:

  1. Wah macam seronok saja dekat sana tu.. hehehe.. Happy weekend too..

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    1. alhamdulillah :) blessed. hehe. happy weekdays for you! ;)

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  2. interesting n3..berpijak di bumi nyata

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    1. true. thats the idea. berpijak di bumi nyata :)
      too much delusion will not bring us anywhere

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  3. Akakkkkk, why did u crop that picture?(the picture that show your shoulder tu) Ahhhh :/ Yeah, you are so true, only us and Allah know what we feel. About pelajaran, alhamdulillah akak dah dapat continue PhD at very young age (below 30 tu muda lah kan?) :D Good luck and take care akak :D Semoga success selalu :D Semoga segala impian dan doa akak dimakbulkan and congrats about thesis tu :D And satu lg, what is VIVA? Care to explain? :D

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    1. hehe sbb tak mo tayang muka akak :p lol. segan2. and you too dik, moga segala impian jadi kenyataan juga. tawakal pada Allah, in shaa Allah :D

      VIVA is like a presentation about the project kepada panels yang in this area juga. normally another researchers yg dah well established. they will judge either project ni convincing or not :)

      thanks for d dua!

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    1. Alhamdulillah... i love the scenes too :) buat rasa nak masuk hutan Pahang.haha

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  5. same with me. we cant pls ppl. as for me, as long my parents n siblings is ok, i dnt care wht other ppl said regards jodoh. i love nature so much. hope to see somewhere in Europe later. hehe... now, enjoying my sunbath till max.

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    1. cool ! nice to know someone who think alike :p hehe. susah nak pleased everyone. yg penting on our parents. and enjoy ur sunbathing ! I miss pantai malaysia however.lol

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  6. Kak eve I miss you... and erkkk haydar too...ngeeee~

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    1. Haha, Haydar. surely. Tetiba rasa nak buka mss sekali lagi. :p

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  7. heee its so nice to hear from u.goodluck for ur viva~ :D just want to see more pic during summer there! :D :D :D

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    1. thanks babe! in shaa Allah, nanti eve update yg Manchester nye plak.lol

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  8. berharap satu hari nanti dapat jejak kaki kt sna n bcome a person like u...hohoho
    ...really respect u sis...^___^

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    1. in shaa Allah semua org mampu afidah! :) never too late for anything. in shaa Allah. Choosing this path is not as lovely as what it seems but as for my own part, i am happy with this choice, alhamdulillah.

      and respect u too for having that ambition ! <3

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  9. *kene kumpul duit pegi sana* ^_^

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    1. Jom kak Ayu ;) tido umah saya :p hehe

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  10. dear eve kamu dkurniakan kecerdikan n berkemampuan.tapi aku tak punya itu smua.kdg aku letih dgn kehidupan.tapi nak buat mcmna.hidup mesti dteruskan.beri aku nasihat eve

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    1. salam anon...

      tak juga anon. semua benda have its own price tag...i wasnt not born pandai (saya tak rasa saya pandai pun) dan i was born in a poor family (ayah bonceng kami 4 beradik atas motor ke sekolah, pakai baju sama 2 tahun, ke sekolah kadang ada duit kadang tak) tapi alhamdulillah, semua ni pembakar semangat. Saya percaya kalau Allah boleh jadikan Einstein bijak, Allah boleh jadikan saya pada intensity yg sama. Kalau Allah boleh jadikan Bill Gates seorang Billionaire Allah boleh jadikan saya seperti dia juga. Bunyi macam tinggi sangkaan saya, tapi sangkaan yg tinggi tu saya perlukan. Agama itu paksinya pada Hope dan Fear. Harapan dan Takut pada Allah. Dan nyata semua pengharapan letaknya pada Allah.

      Kadang saya pun letih dengan hidup, tapi kalau saya percaya, setiap kali keadaan sangat teruk menimpa itu tandanya ada sesuatu yg lebih baik akan berlaku jika saya lawan keadaan tersebut. lawan as in redha tapi pada masa yg sama berusaha utk buat yg lebih baik utk keluar dari keadaan tu.

      In shaa Allah, jangan pernah putus harapan, dan jangan pernah salahkan Tuhan dengan apa yang berlaku pada kita. Bila kita salahkan Allah ,atau kita persoalkan Allah kenapa jadikan kita begini dan begini, Allah sebutkan dalam Al-Quran yang itulah sifat orang2 sombong sedari zaman Nabi Musa. dan orang yang sombong haram jejaki syurga... Eve perhatikan ramai org tak sedar semua ni... Kadang perkara begini juga menakutkan sbb dlm tak sedar kita go against Allah dan keaadaan ni buat kita lebih teruk.

      Apa pun selalu bersyukur dengan apa yg kita ada. selalu berterima kasih pada Allah. dan selalu berdoa dan usaha untuk jadi lebih baik :) in shaa Allah, kamu mampu :)

      Moga Allah berkati kamu. Amen


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  11. Izzati Aisyah Md Nor:

    wah3x..pemandangan dekat sana sangat cantik...seriously, zati teringin nak pergi sana bila kak eve post gambar bunga2...i pun suka bunga jugak tau...hehehe

    I think I want to be like U...oh,no!..I has to be myself but I think I want to follow U...continue my study until PHD..In shaa Allah..

    letaklah gambar sis bnyak2 dlam nie...semua nak kenal siapakah gerangan cik Evelyn Rose kita...:)

    gudluck for ur VIVA and always take care of urself at there...<3 u so much..:)

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    1. hehe saje je kan nak promote so that u will make a new resolution to come here :p

      lol in shaa Allah dik, nti akan reveal kan diri juga, in shaa Allah. and good luck on ur coming exam ! 6 months to go isnt it ;)

      tQ for the doa

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  12. Min: wahhh... congratulation... dah mini viva dah... sob3 jealous. bila min nak viva lak ni... uhuk3 waiting for my 2nd draft correction. masalah sungguh bila SV duk busy ngn projects lain. dgn min skali kena tempiasnya. dugaan sungguh. my junior dulu studied kt Sheffield gak, hairul adhan, xtaw klu eve kenal ke x.. hehehe

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    1. haha i know what u fel min. seriously. my sv pun sibuk jg. yg sorg tu sekali je jumpa dalam 9 months ni. all the best with urs ya! and yeah i know Adhan :p what a small world. dia junior saya ;)

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  13. very interesting. tringin nk rsa blajar kt luar and travel. kenal suasana baru, budaya baru, and create best moments. blajar kt luar jga bleh exceed dri ap yg dh bljar di m'sia. sometimes, kna travel tmpat luar bru dpt bnda bru. Eve sgt beruntung ada pluang n rzeki ke sana. :)
    i realised 1 thing. you're skipping master, trus continue phd? waahh, hebatnya! or mmg kt sna sistem dia lain ke? btw,all the best for your life and future. thee ^^

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    1. alhamdulillah rezeki Allah babe :) u pun boleh, in shaa Allah. usaha dan doa. but truly eve banyak belajar culture and thoughts yg berlainan kat sini. sikap org sini buat eve suka sebenarnya.. lain dari org kita. tapi nama pun developing and well developed country, mmg lain lah caranya.

      owh eve buat Master Engineering ( Ijazah (3thn)+ Master (1thn)) then now PhD. All the best with yours too yeah! and kat sini mmg boleh smbg terus PhD after ijazah.

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  14. Assalamualaikum. Cantekkk nya pic tu Eve. hehe. Kata nak balik mesia, akak awak belum hilang ingatan lagi ni. herm... fenomena novel di malaysia:
    1. kahwin paksa
    2. heroin belajar paling tinggi ijazah/diploma
    eve adalah antara novelis yg mengangkat martabat heroin (termasuk sorang Bf akak tu yg nama dia HA) hahaha. salute both of u!
    apapun, akak doakan yg terbaik untuk eve. bila akak fikir-fikirkan balik, banyak sangat nikmat Tuhan untuk kita. sampai kadang2 jadi malu... apa lagi nak minta ye?
    Good luck Eve. Take care. assalamualaikum

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    1. wsalam wbt kak,

      ahahaha. nak balik tapi ntah bila.lol.

      yeah saya saya rasa now dah ada new way in plotting stories (inc yours!) which make me feel lots better reading them. Alhamdulillah and congrats for your coming novel kak!

      sangat banyak kak nikmat Allah pada kita...kadang rasa malu nak meminta, tapi org yang meminta Allah katakan sebagai org yg sombong dgn dia...tapi apa pun terima kasih pada Allah perlu datang lebih dulu sblm meminta pada dia kan :) teruskan menulis dan menyampaikan kak!

      tc u too and all the best in life!


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    2. I made typo mistake : tapi orang yang tidak meminta dari Allah, Allah katakan sebagai org yg sombong.

      * yg penting selalu minta supaya ke syurga, in shaa Allah, dan utk dapatkan hidaya dari Dia :)

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  15. Salam eve..masa sy bce entry ni..sy seriusly ad dlm keadaan sedih n tertekan...Alhamdulillah some of your words give me strength..dan sy sedar kahwin tu xpnting..sy pun ad bnda lagi penting dr kahwin n sibuk2 nk bercintan cintun...sy kne try my best to rich myself...thnks a lot..and for you congrats for you thesis...hehe..xoxo :)

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    1. slm..rasa terpnggil plak nk komen..kawin tu bknnya bnda x penting sis klu x mcm mana nk ramaikn umat ISLAM kt dunia ni.cuma antara cepat @ lmbt bertemu jodoh je..klu x kt cni INSYAALLAH kt SANA nnt...

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    2. wsalam wbt aisyikin.. :)

      Bagi eve bercinta sebelum kahwin tu tak perlu... Suami tu anugerah Allah...kita hidup sehabis baik, Allah kurniakan kita org yg sesuai nti. Eve tgok ramai yang bercinta tapi tak ke jinjang pelamin. Usaha mencari jodoh (bila kita rasa dah masanya kita kahwin, or kita memang nak kahwin) tu perlu tapi dgn cara yg betul. Guna wali (ayah, abang). Even sounds kuno, but I still think that is right way. BAnyak kawan2 eve mcm ni. We focused on our career and academic, bila dah umur 28 in shaa Allah minta ayah carikan (kalau dah nak kawin, kalau tak, tak perlu lagi :)

      Kahwin tu bukan setakat utk meremai kan umat ;) bukan juga utk kawal nafsu sahaja.. kalau dah ada jodoh yg elok, kahwinlah, tapi kalau tak ada yg elok, jangan menekan diri sbb benda tu. Tulisan Suhaib Webb ni bagus untuk panduan :)

      http://www.suhaibwebb.com/relationships/marriage-family/wifehood-and-motherhood-%E2%80%93-not-the-only-ways-to-paradise/


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    3. yup btol bkn utk meramaikn umat shj..juz 1 of da reasons knp kawen 2 penting..

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  16. i'm 26 now and I love your mom's answer!bahahahaha

    this entry make me realise a lot of things and inspire me to do something in my life.sebelum ni slalu buat benda rutin je dlm hidup.heh!

    and from your entry,boleh imagine eve ni org mcm mana and i love it sbb jarang jumpa org pemikiran mcm ni which is good ;)

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    1. true sal ! Jom go out of the our common box. and eve pun suka jumpa someone who have the same thinking as some what its not easy to gain a friend who think alike ;) Lets lets do what we wanna do without any limit (except shariah laws) lol

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  17. Waalaikumsalam Eve,

    Alhamdulilah berjaya juga u submit thesis .. walaupun sibuk utk '13hours' :)

    Nice pics... subhanallah betapa indah sungguh ciptaan yg maha Esa..walaupun dimana saja bumi dipijak kita masih lagi dapat menikmatinya..

    Oppss bab kahwin...Eve very lucky .. ur mom very sporting & understands ...
    Insyallah kalu sudah jodoh .. terima dan redha.. hanya Allah yang maha mengetahui..
    Berdoa moga perkahwinan itu akan disinari cahaya kebahagian dan d redhai Allah .. dan dpt suami yg ensem... hihihiiii (gurau tau..nak ensem je kan) tapi kalu btul aminnn... jgn lupe jemput i tau..

    Btul.. psl nak jg parents... 10 org anak blum tentu dpt menjaga seorg ibubapa.. moga2 kite dpt mengenang jasa murni kedua ibubapa kite..aaaminnn

    Ok...pnjng plak celoteh i ni... ok dear enjoy ur very 'english'.. kalu i pon of course buat benda yg sama.. take gd care my dear..

    Eiyan..:)

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    1. tu lah alhamdulillah... berjaya jg submit. alhamdulillah.

      yeah true :) kalau ada yg baik, keadaan sesuai, in shaa Allah pegang dan hargai serta usaha supaya bahagia. tapi so far tak fikir lagi.haha.

      in shaa Allah, hope kita dapat jaga mak ayah nnti. Jasa dorg mmg tak mampu nak di balas, harap dapat bls sikit2 pun jadilah.

      tc u too eiyan! all d best in life

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  18. u're the best Eve.
    ~keno sambung belajar sano jugok ni. :)

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    1. hehe d best tu dopla. jom pakat2 jadi lebih baik dari semalam. in shaa Allah :) meh2 mari belajar sini ;D

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  19. salam eve...akak suka pesanan eve - dont let ur work enslave u ..
    hemmm ... kena draw up an action plan la gini coz at this moment that is what i feel - enslave by my work ..isk..isk..mcm xde life ..kerja memanjang...

    ok dear ..enjoy ur summer ya..take care..

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    1. wsalam wbt :)

      true kak. kadang kita tak perasan sampai la our body and mind is too tired with our routine. hehe. take a rest kak! and enjoy r days too :D

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  20. hi eve. tak sabar tunggu bab2 abang pilot.

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    1. lol in shaa Allah esok lusa ;)haha dah berapa kali esok lusa dah ni.lol

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  21. "Jadi PA, jadi secretary, jadi amah, macam satu kunci utk kahwin dengan orang kaya. Pada saya, kenapa nak harapkan harta orang kalau kita sendiri boleh jadi kaya ?Being a PA/Secretary/Amah - seriously ? Your choice, again, but why be that when you can better ? and why aim to marry a rich man so that you will become rich ? Be rich yourself !"


    what are you trying to say dear. correct me if i am wrong, but u sound like u belittle low class serfs!

    amah, PA, secretary etc watever the job they are doing is still a job. though they cant compete anytime with some phd geek dont mean wat they do is just a mere job. u need these ppl to run the world though. and after all although they are stucked with their low pay job, they are human, with basic human feelings - to dream big!

    been reading your writing. and ever since i saw the side of you whom seen different perception towards low class serf. (when i read, i cramped my brain to read abt the writer's personality. i could get it 12% right or 80% wrong tho) come on not all ppl are born geek, booksmart, academically excellente, rich, handsome, good looking, heir of some big corporation, leader, etc.

    "marrying the riches to be rich." you have got to be kidding me. come on we all aware those are only disney fairytales. although it happens real life but i believe them story writers were merely in their dreamy world. lol and that they are so bended to old time's thematic -poor girl vs rich dude!

    now let us talk about options, opportunities, chances, and what else.. late bloomers! be mind that not all are aware of what they should be doing for their future. what job would fit their personality. and what's there between passion and passion. and money talks. wether a mere job or career. be mind that some of us only realised at a late age. and some of us wouldnt manage to see the chance, the road that will take them to it. some still left clueless, helpless. contemplating. some who eventually seen the 'thing' arent risk taker. some who already walks the talk somehow gives up along the way. life commitment. not everyone is committed to own self.

    and be mind some only prefer a decent stable life no luxury bags or cars or weekly fine dining. some are closet rich dudes. life life~

    anyways there might be one of us out there whom are intelligent challenged, but s/he is doing a white collar job/ flyers distributers. we dont know their stories, what happened to them till they end up there whether it's a complete wrong channel. again answer in above paragraph. and vice versa, what happened to the group of world known geniuses like sufiah yusuf? i have seen one in real life myself. god knows, see how amazing the world is created, in different seconds He takes back.

    now have you ever heard the talks going -business is the easiest course in school, and sciences are tough. comes to working life in MY particularly see who is making more? lets take average ppl as the sampling alright. some even looks down on salesman. CEOs are salesman too dang. message is street smart. not all can do it. book smart not all can earn it.

    last but not least do not get me wrong. i am not siding the other story writers. they open to write anything and you as well open to get your words spilled. only that i disagree with your 'attitude' i came up with a long text. it's your pick if you want to boast around or saying everyone can work their ass to be rich. and be mind that not all aware even hidayah have to be gained. not earned.

    oh yes i like anonymity just like you do!


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    1. +1

      ps: "Marrying the riches to be rich." you have got to be kidding me. come on we all awre those are only disney fairytales. although it happens real life but i believe them story writers were merely in their dreamy world.

      part ni pun +1

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    2. Thank you 'anon at ur best' for ur long reply on the statement.

      I agree with ur statememt made. u sounds brilliant. and there is nothing wrong with ur stand. BUT its too sad when u know u might be only 12% right about my attitude which u cramped ur head to think of how (yeah knowing u dont even know me) and u railed me up ACCUSING I'm belittling low serf. lovely. i should be indebted with your 'kind' accusation.

      but since u asked what i actually trying to say ?

      my statement - as i mentioned in the entry - i shows my worry - as the writers who wrote story plots where the GRADUATE students chose to be orang gaji dalam rumah orang kaya. and ended up marrying the rich guy. or become a PA or Secretary. PA and Secretary have their own qualification, even secretary requires a degree in secretariat while PA a diploma in the same scope or any diverted areas. Orang gaji - i dont know what qualification required here.

      My worries is when those teenagers read those novel they will thought that those posts and jobs are the jobs which will bring them closer to the riches. I used to have a secretary and kerani and few other co-workers, I know how they work. And never once i belittle them. as i need them. BUT. If i have a kid should i let her aim to be those ? As long as it is halal, it is good, but knowing the nature of the job, i dont recommend it for my own sisters/daughters. I salute those who can stand and deal with the job, but for myself, i wont go for it. It requires patient since you need to do whatever u were directed by the boss, from photocopying, to make drink etc. IF that is your job than do your best at it. But if you have kids, what would you feel if they tell you CITA2 DORANG NAK JADI ORANG GAJI ? Just like cerita pisau cukur. Its a lie if we said these stories isnt giving any impact on kids or readers, because in our own community there is still a majority of us would opt to WOW the riches. There is nothing wrong in marrying the riches but choose the WOW way too.

      I highlighted in my book and my entries about symbiosis living where everyone need need every one else for so many time (yg kaya perlukan yg miskin etc). how can you turn a blind eye on those and picked this one statement over the others?

      I agree with you with most part but there is some issues i will highlight :

      1) When you said EVERYHTHING NEED TO BE GAINED how come u said SOMEONE IS BORN TO BE BRILLIANT at the same time ?

      2) Its true a writer can spill whatever they want, BUT as a reader dont i have my right to say my review ? As much as you have the right to give comment on mine ?

      3) I strongly believe, what I read, I see and I hear will give an impact on my mind. There is no exception in novel and this is proven by many researches done psychologist. I used to read classic romance too, but the characters shows the women are brilliant eg: Pride and Prejudice. or maybe we read different things.

      4) If you have an attitude - you're born 'like this', i wonder what will happen to the world. Where is the HOPE ? I believe that everyone is born special, we might not have the same capability but as what u said everything need to be gained, so thats is the key, and everyone have their own talent which they need to be polished.


      p/s: wsalam wbt and thank you again for the accusation. its a lovely day to read that :) and sorry if by any means i offended you. i take that as my weakness in writing. I should make lengthy entry like yours on that specific paragraph so that people would get me right :)






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  22. Beautiful scenery. Tersangatlah indah. I will do well in my life dgn harapan dpt jejak kaki kt tmpt mcm tu nnt. Usaha tangga kejayaan kan? Hehe

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    1. true ! usaha tangga kejayaan Hanaa thats the thing ;) glad that u can get that. hope to see u here

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  23. I agreed very much with your long comment (june 10: 16:04) THANK YOU. You have done your part. May Allah bless all of us always and as we are His slave.

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  24. ohh..kak eve, ur story is amazing..bestnye dpt g situ..but i do agree with u about the marriage part..it's sick when we do something just to please people kan..bkn xbleh please org len, tp kna tgok keadaan jgk kn..ape pon, doakan sy dpt g situ eh? hehe..

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    1. yes, if those are our parents, should consider lah, tu pun after nicely talk to them :) but if we feel oblige to get married just because of peer pressure or surrounding its not very healthy :) Imam Suhaib Webb did make an entry about this issue. its good if u could visit his website :)

      in shaa Allah moga dapat buat Euro Trip nanti ;)

      http://www.suhaibwebb.com/relationships/marriage-family/wifehood-and-motherhood-%E2%80%93-not-the-only-ways-to-paradise/

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  25. ANONYMITY.. THANK YOU FOR THE LONG .... AND I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THAT. KADANG2 KITA LUPA SIAPA KITA DAN SESUNGGUHNYA SETIAP KEADAAN ITU BERSEBAB. DIA JADIKAN KITA DENGAN KEBIJAKSANAAN YANG BERBEZA2. MELIHAT SETIAP KEJADIAN ITU DENGAN MATA HATI.

    WORDS DO REFLECT AND AM FEEL SORRY FOR THE N3

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    1. its good to know that u know semua benda berlaku dengan bersebab. I didnt say it isnt. please check what I meant to say and go wild on perception. wonder why some people get it this way and another get it differently.

      Apa pun saya tetap percaya yang Allah jadikan kita semua sama. Tiada yang lebih dan kurang, mungkin dalam talent yg berbeza, but we have the right to strive for better.

      Thank you for feeling sorry for the entry. I started to feel sorry too when some didnt get what i meant.

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    2. Eve, happy with ur respon. and very well understood. don mean anything but agreed with my different perceptions and angles. Any way all the best to you. yes we have the right to strive better. you have the choice. we cannot change people what have to learn to accept. Melihat setiap kejadian dengan mata hari.

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  26. A Chinese mixed Malay blood (muslim)11 June 2013 at 11:32

    Salam. Dear Sis Eve, I would to ask you a question. Why are you not showing off your face? We all readers waited for a long time. I love your book and thought about life as well as I am a student that need lots of reading such nice book to gain knowledge. Hoping for the next post that would make me smile ear to ear. Love you. Do feel free to share more ypur thought about your life there.

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    1. Wsalam wbt dik :)

      hehe sebab... I dont do selfie :p hahaha. I feel gay if I did.lol. I dont put pictures of mine in my personal fb account. hence. I cant really upload my own picca so that people wud see me.it feels weird, in a way. *it just me*. thanks loads for reading my blog and book. but then in shaa Allah picc of me might be in print but not in d web (?) maybe. :p

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    2. A Chinese mixed Malay blood (muslim)15 June 2013 at 11:27

      thanks for replying my comment. I don't know that a busy person like you would answer my childish ques. haha you kinda funny. I feel gay if I did? *brust into laughter* . Whaddya meant might be in print? hehe .


      Keep writing!

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    3. hehe i will reply in shaa Allah ;)

      print as in atas kertas.haha. dalam biodata novel ? mungkin :p

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  27. Kak, untuk tulisan yang bold tu saya stuju. Jadi amah untuk kahwin dengan lelaki kaya. What the... 'fish' ?? HAHA. Im to young to mention that little bad word actually!

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    1. haha u sounds like one of my guy fren, he also said what the fish instead of what the fcuk (a brand name) lol. ;)

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    2. I have a t-shirt of Fcuk connection and people always read it as f*ck I dont why. dyslexia maybe.

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    3. lol even my lecturer jokingly said : that F* UK brand. it didnt mean anything but yeah people do make fun out of that name, and some even said its been written that way to confuse people. but at the same time France and UK is an old rival, hence putting F and UK together is like...hmm...so something even it simply means French Connection UK. the right way to say it is : Fuh - KUK or F.C.U.K ;)

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  28. salam kak.. jealous tgk akk dpt pergi tmpt2 mcm ni... hehe...
    so beautiful .. :D n sy harap , insyaallah .. sy dpt pergi tmpt2 mcm ni akn dtg ... kira xpnas la jgk 17 Celsius tu.. ;D (farah,20)

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    1. wsalam wbt babe ;) in shaa Allah jemput datang uk. muda lagi masih sempat lagi nak berjalan tu.

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  29. super dupper jealous dengan korang dapat pegi taman camtu. but i also love my life here, x kisah dengan debu n panas yang membahang, yang penting people surround us is very kind. selamat menyambut sya'ban :)

    p/s: i like part mak back up pasal kawen, since all my sisters that nearly 30 yet still not married and i can't imagine how they feel exactly when people ask about kawen. hehehe :)

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    1. debu and panas ? must be in arid region arent you ? lol. Egypt ? Selamat menyambut Sya'ban babe ! anyway there is nothing be jealous at lah, we have our bad weather time too which is normally in Winter. icy road, thick snow and early night. i'm not complaining but that weather as considered bad.

      hmmm I think our culture are not being considerate with people's feeling esp when purposely asking other peeps about marriage like that. hope she will settle down if thats what she want, but if thats not what she want, she have the right to stay single :) hope people dont put pressure on her anymore. send my regard to her anyway :)

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  30. kak eve!! knape nampak akak suku je dalam gambar tu!!,, x puas hati betul XD kak eve cepat2 la bertemu jodoh ya, pastu jemput saya nnti, hehe XD

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    1. hahahah OMG kenapakah suruh akak cepat2 temu jodoh.haha.I dont know...but married life is like...not my thing yet. Maybe one day. maybe. :p

      p/s: suku ok lah tu ;)

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    2. Seriously Ms Eve ? That picture was too nice even there was only eyes. Superb hott eyes. Im jelly.....

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    3. amboi, puji melambung anon ye :p

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  31. Salam kak eve. Just nak tanya which part of England you're at? I am going to further my study in UK this Sept. Would love to know a bit about the city I am going to so that I will have a well preparation. huhu.

    btw, i love reading your entries :)

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    1. lol, now i gonna ask which part of England are u going to ? *am not disclosing mine yet.later maybe* just let me know which part,if i can advise u on it then I will absolutely do :)

      Thanks for reading my entries dik!

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    2. lol. I forgot to mention it. I maybe will go to Teesside University. Have you been there? I've read about the city and the university and its kinda lovely place to go but still knowing that I may have to travel alone its kinda scary. Huhu.

      Contact me at zari_fah_91@yahoo.com :)

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    3. owh Teeside, kat Middlesborough... Been there twice. Personally Mbrough is a nice place. Tak sibuk. its like a small silence town/city. Peeps are nice too. And ramai juga Muslim, ada halal subway...all in all, worry not :) its a nice place. Anything zaza pm akak kat my page di fb, jarang email.

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  32. Assalamualaikum....

    Like ur entries....give us some wonderful experiences to share. Anyway, would like to know when ur new novel 13Jam - A380 to be published.....can't wait to read the full version...

    Thanks

    Sis mb

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    1. wsalam wbt, thanks sis mb :) tQ for liking them. A380 tak dapat news from boss lagi pasal date publish tu,,,in shaa Allah dah tahu nanti saya gtau ya :) Thanks tanya.

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  33. As salam ER,post yg banyak mesej mendalam here. ehem nak tanya juga when is 13jam gonna roll out (tentative month pun x pa) and yes am waiting patiently for abg pilot 2. take care n stay sweet fr kak timms.

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    1. wsalam kak timss :) hehe abang pilot is here now. ahaha, saya rasa saya tulis cerita abang pilot dgn sungguh merapu. pardon me ;p

      bulan bila saya pun tak sure jg kak timms. boss tak gtau lg. if dah tahu will let u know in shaa Allah :) TQ sudi baca this blog

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  34. As salam Eve.... lamanya tak masuk sini huhu dah ada cita baru... tahniah....n tahniah unt semua kejayaan , sabar menunggu 2nd baby U hahaha....

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    1. wsalam wbt kak Liyana ! :) yeah cerita merapu Zahid dan lea. lol. thanks for the wish kak, alhamdulillah rezeki Allah semua tu :) n i'm waiting for the baby too.lol. have no idea bila due, haha

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  35. Eve... jeles tau tgk gmbr 2 !!!! Thanks 4 sharing.. bile agaknya sy dpt smpi ke situ??? Rasa mcm nk guling2 kat hamparan rumput yg terbentang hijau tu. I like nature.....

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    1. hehe saya pun suka nature...so dem much ! tape ucu, kalau tak dapat sampai sini pun kita guling2 kat Pahang rain forest ke... hope Malaysian will know how to preserve the nature. lol.

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  36. saya seronok bca n3 kak Eve..ase kna kat jiwa. saya pun suka jln2 nature wpun bajet murah kat Mesia je, lbih prefer jdi Anon n x blh nak up gmba sndri ke public (gmbar fb pun hide lgi), mcam stuju ngan "I feel gay if I did"..hehehe.

    n saya mmg da muak ngan plot nvel cinta skrang yng mnekankan watak hero yang berjaya n kerja hebat. sebagai remaja zmn skrang, saya juga selalu dngr ayat kawan2 yang inginkan seorang suami yang kaya, hensem seperti yang digmbarkan dlm nvel. mcm ayat common, "kalo kena kawen paksa pun aku sggup la kalo laki mcam ni". ayat ni mmg mnjtuhkan martabat kita sebagi pompuan yang boleh menilai dan menghargai diri sendri.

    >>k<<

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    1. hehe, yeah idk why but i felt gay whenever i upload my selfie pic. so nak ltak kat blog apatah lagi kan ;p

      setuju dengan u about our martabat :) searching for high achiever alpha male is fine, but its good if we dont make it as our life mission, but instead kita jadikan diri kita a high achiever, then those alpha male surely will come by itself. :)

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  37. As Yusra:

    Assalam kak Eve,

    Hye~ ^_^

    Thanks sis untuk ayat yg bawah ni. !

    "Dont aim for anything less. Never. Trust God. Allah have the POWER to grant all your wishes !

    And to those whose being pressure about marriage. Stand up for yourself and have a principal. You know what you want better than others. Dont get married just to please others. That's sick."

    Memang betul bile perempuan semakin naik umur, dah tak ada benda lain yang orang akan tanya selain kahwin. huhu. ^_^ Naik balik semangat bila baca ayat neh.

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    1. wsalam wbt Yusra ! Hye ;)

      if u r being pressured, seriously do stand up for your self. dont let anyone stress u up with that sort of things. benda kahwin bukan sehari dua, yang akan rasa kita. di take ur time :) and hope things is doing great on ur side

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  38. Hi Eve,

    Sara Aisha here. Walaupun tak pernah komen kat sini, i've always be ur SR...hehe. Now tetiba rasa nak komen, because i soooo agree with part 'why aim to marry a rich man? be rich yourself!' Hah, that's d exact thing that i've always had in my mind. it's like, kawen dgn datuk? ala...jadikan diri sendiri tu datuk. habis cerita..haha

    Jugak, part watak heroin tak berpelajaran tu. ohmai! memang kak sara tak berapa berkenan jugak. that's why, u won't see any uneducated heroin in my novels. they have to be career women with dreams and their own principle. bukan jugak jenis perempuan yang kerjanya cuma menangis, menangis dan menangis. we r women, and we are strong...gitu.

    okeylah, done komen ala2 emansipasi seorang wanita ni..haha! Good luck with your study and everything, tau. And oh...nak bagitau Eve, shooting drama TWB akan bermula bulan 10 nanti. and kak sara dah pesan pd diorng suruh pilih hero elok2, kena yang betul2 perfect..haha!

    lots of love,
    Cik SA

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    1. Ouch, Kak Sara was here ! :D

      I'm blessed to have u here. lol. and yeah that's it ! Why not kita jadi Datuk kan ? People might say gee what a feminist - girl power etc, but come one, we do have that power, rite ? lol. and I'm happy to see novels with strong women dalam plot cerita inc the heroins in your novels ;)

      Opps, bulan 10 yeah ? Haha i have no idea about that TWB drama ni. Thanks for letting me know. got zero expectation on the cast too.haha. hope pemegang watak tu boleh bawa dgn baik ;)

      thanks for dropping bye kak ;)

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    2. Awww, you're welcome. i'm glad to show up here..=)

      And, dear...actually, i'm younger than you. You're 27, am i right? I'm 26. So please...don't call me Kak Sara. feels too old...haha. Uh, i'm the one who should call you 'Kak Eve'. Selamba aje panggil u nama, sorry...

      It was a coincidence that i know about TWB, because the director for TWB is also the director for JIMK. we were chit chatting, and i asked him about his next project, which he answered 'The wedding breaker.' And i was like... "wow, okay." yup, hopefully sesiapa pun jadi watak2 dalam TWB akan dapat bawakan watak dengan baik. please...please don't let us down..hehe..


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    3. lah 26 ke.haha. sorryee i always think I'm young.ala-ala terasa diri always 17 gtu.hahaha :p Pergh, cuak okay, entah siapakah bakal bawa watak2 utama tu..cuak2.lol hope things goes well. amen2

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  40. i am a teenager, that almost gave up my foundation in science cause i was afraid of those hard subjects and competitions from others. but after i read this part, :

    "if you're a teenager reading this, trust me, do well with your life. dont aim for anything less. never. trust God. Allah has the power to grant all your wishes."

    i realized i should never give up just because the subjects are hard.i should continue fighting for my dreams as a doctor (amin). thanks a lot kak (surely you're older than me. hehe) evelyn rose for the words. love them. :)

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    1. Alhamdulillah if that's what u feel :) never give up just bcoz of u think its hard. just follow ur dream, ur passion will fuel you, in shaa Allah. Akak buat PhD pun org cakap its quite early, and indeed the road did get rough, but the passion and intention always fuel my journey.

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    2. inshaAllah kak, i will not give up anymore. 1 year foundation in science + 5 years of medic. another 6 years, inshaAllah the world gotta know me as a doctor, ready to serve my people, my family and utmost, ready to serve Islam. May Allah ease everything. Amin. :)

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    3. in shaa Allah dik. all the best ! :)

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  41. saya baru terbaca kak eve punya blog. really opened my mind and inspired me, may i share this Ilmu :)

    SITINURFATIN :)

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